We are all so worried about ourselves that we leave almost no time or mental space to worry about others in anything like the same way in which we are concerned. And so, likewise, most of the time, when we do or don’t do something in a social moment or in life in general, and we are concerned that others will perceive us negatively, most people are in fact so busy concerning themselves with when they messed up or how they look to ever notice us, let alone care.
