• Dispense with “disinformation” and cultivate a true understanding of female sexuality • Think clitorally, rather than vaginally; to focus on stimulation as opposed to penetration • Postpone gratification without sacrificing pleasure • Turn foreplay into coreplay • Skillfully navigate the process of female sexual response and appreciate the role of the clitoris as the powerhouse of pleasure • Develop a sense of awareness that will render the often elusive female orgasm knowable and tangible beyond the shadow of a doubt