Be Alluring • Now avoid the head. • Next, vary the routine with small halfway licks, from bottom to midvagina, avoiding the area of the clitoral head altogether. • Focus on stimulating her inner labia. This way you’re not overexciting the head (remember how sensitive it is). You’re teasing it, gently coaxing the head out from under its protective clitoral hood by switching your tongue strokes: from light, repetitive licks that gently graze her to deeper,