She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

by Ian Kerner

This book is not anti-intercourse, but rather pro-“outercourse”—

Okay thats a funny line hahaha

In other words, the G-spot may be nothing more than the back end of the clitoris.”

That's quite the eye opener

Better if men simply left their penis alone, stopped attending to those immature nerve fibers, and concentrated instead on learning how to orgasm through their tongues.”

This muscle is interwoven with muscle that encircles the anus, and is part of the reason that anal stimulation is often a turn-on and hence part of the clitoral network.

In addition, the uterus contracts because of an influx of oxytocin.

women want more interaction; men want to roll over and go to sleep.

Generalizing but sure

at least take precautions through the use of barriers such as dental dams

It's interesting. I've never used or heard of anyone using a dental dam in my whole life. I'm not even sure I've ever seen one at the pharmacy

Whereas a request to use a condom is SOP

Getting hot and bothered thinking about standard operating procedure!!

and impermanent

Everything is impermanent

During foreplay avoid direct contact with her genitals for a minimum of ten to fifteen minutes.

Sex researchers have observed that some women can reach orgasm by simply having their eyebrows stroked or their earlobes kissed.

By itself?

11 percent of the eight thousand women surveyed said that they stroked their breasts during masturbation

That seems really low.

Try a dry white, or a red Zinfandel—

I've never heard of pairing wine with the taste of a woman

when she’s on top, you’re doing less thrusting and are, therefore, more likely to be able to control the timing of your own orgasm.

I find the opposite is true in my experience