Today, I am convinced that one of the main sources of PE is poor masturbation habits—how boys are taught, or rather not taught, to do it quickly, furtively, and shrouded in taboo and secrecy. It doesn’t take long for a young man to program himself to seek his pleasure quickly, and as we all know, bad habits are difficult to break. Perhaps if someone had told me early on to masturbate with a woman’s orgasm in mind, rather than my own, I would have been spared years of turmoil.
