She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

by Ian Kerner

Studies, like those by Kinsey and Masters and Johnson, have concluded that among women whose partners spent twenty-one minutes or longer on foreplay, only 7.7 percent failed to reach orgasm consistently.

To that end, the Three Assurances of the cunnilinguist manifesto are as follows: •Going down on her turns you on; you enjoy it as much as she does. •There’s no rush; she has all the time in the world. You want to savor every moment. •Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence.

Refer back to the Three Assurances in Part I and take note of Assurance number two: There’s no rush; she has all the time in the world. You want to savor every moment.

Express the Three Assurances of cunnilingus persistently throughout your session: 1) Going down on her turns you on; you enjoy it as much as she does. 2) There’s no rush; she has all the time in the world; you want to savor every moment. 3) Her scent is provocative, her taste intoxicating: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence.