She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

by Ian Kerner

Putting All the Players to Work Now it’s time to deploy a gum-press in combination with a come-hither clasp. It’s this combination of focused pressure on both sides of the clitoral region, inner and outer, that will usher her into the preorgasm state. • Maintain the pressure of a gum-press for five to ten seconds, and then vary it with tongue strokes—short horizontal passes that skim across the top of the clitoral head from left to right, or vertical strokes that hit it head-on from bottom to top. • All the while, maintain the manual stimulation of the come-hither finger clasp. • Get your thumb into the action by pressing it against her frenulum. • Get your free hand (the one supporting her buttocks) into the action by stimulating her perineum. If your hand is horizontally straddling her buttocks, simply rotate it so that it’s vertically aligned with the crevice between her buttocks. Now your thumb is free, willing, and able to stimulate her perineum externally. In case you didn’t know it, at this point you’re working like a pro. You are stimulating the key areas of the clitoral network, both visible and hidden, and calling all of its parts to action! Let’s Review 1. In this chapter we discussed the importance of applying external pressure to the region around the clitoral head. 2. We introduced the technique of a gum-press against the front commissure, or alternatively fingertip or vibrator pressure against the frenulum. The point is to maintain pressure and provide a poi...