She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

by Ian Kerner

Place your free hand under her buttocks and cradle them firmly. You should be able to easily squeeze both cheeks together. Use your hand to keep her in position and fine-tune the position of her vulva in relation to your mouth. Make no mistake: a steady hand is crucial, the backbone of a great session—it helps her to easily maintain persistent contact with your mouth and allows you to modulate the pressure against her vulva. Let’s Review 1. In this chapter we commenced the process of developing sexual tension. We achieved this by introducing manual stimulation, namely in the form of a single finger inserted into the vaginal entrance. In doing so, we noted the response of her clitoral cuff and pelvic muscles. 2. We also highlighted an alternative to the index finger in the form of the thumb, as well as a playful combination in which the perineum is stimulated in combination with the index finger. 3. In addition to simple manual stimulation, we also emphasized the importance of using a hand to support her weight and keep her firmly in position. A steady grip helps you execute your tongue strokes and maintain persistent contact with her vulva.