She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

by Ian Kerner

Tongue Strokes NOW THAT HER CLITORAL HEAD is fully acclimated to the attention of your tongue, it’s time to vary your strokes and get playful: let your tongue take a solo. But, in doing so, remember the admonitions of Strunk and White, “Be clear. Be wild of tongue in a way we can understand!” Don’t make a break with the rhythm you’ve established, reinforce it; play on top of it. Horizontal Strokes Most tongue strokes are vertical, from bottom to top, but brisk horizontal licks back and forth across the clitoral head will inflame her, particularly if they’re wet and sloppy and wash over the full expanse of the head. Diagonal Strokes Tilt your head to the left or right (whichever is more comfortable), and press your ear against her thigh. Then lick from a lower corner point of the clitoral region up to its diagonal opposite, brushing against the clitoral head in the process. When this is executed correctly, you’ll notice that your strokes slow down because you’re working harder for each one and you’re using the side of your tongue as opposed to the front of it. This position may be a bit awkward on the neck, but the change in direction and pace is sure to delight her, particularly since your strokes will have a heavier, slightly sluggish quality to them. There’s actually a bit of “drag” to the diagonal stroke, and within that rhythm of drag an unpredictable staccato—pleasurable tiny “spikes” that spark within her. Tongue Tip: Use both of your thumbs to gently part her labia ...