An Exercise: Reframe the Conversation You can exercise your new identity as one who is united to Christ by reframing the conversation inside your head. The constant voice that narrates your life, that begins speaking to your soul when you wake up each morning, naturally talks in terms of “I”—What do I want to do? What does this mean for me? … I think I need to … I … I … I … But you can practice the truth that Christ has married his life to yours by including him as your constant conversation partner. What should we do? What are you trying to teach me?