We’re learning to remember that in every situation we have a choice about how we’ll respond. We can say, “Wait a second. Why am I so mad about this?” Instead of fuming and raging, we can ask God, “Where is this hostility coming from? What’s the source of it? Where did this first begin in my life? Search me, Lord. How does this situation make me feel? What do you want me to know about this, Lord?”