But whatever reality is telling you, and however the Lord is leading you, move toward that. And that’s exactly what we’ve been doing throughout this whole book. And if reality is telling you that you’ve done all you can do, what comes next? You’ve made the big changes, you’ve prayed, you’ve sought wise counsel, you’ve had the conversations, you’ve set the boundaries, you’ve implemented the consequences, you’ve set even more clearly defined boundaries and yet, it’s not working.