But here’s where all of this could fall apart. The wife draws necessary boundaries and her husband lashes back: “It’s no wonder I watch porn. Look at what a nag you are. You are so dramatic. This isn’t that big of a deal. All men do this. I can’t even trust you with my struggles because you’re always looking to find something wrong with me. And you think this little boundary tactic is going to make me more attracted to you? No, this just shows me I’m justified because you don’t care about my needs.”