porn, sex outside of marriage, slandering people who intimidate them, trying to one-up others’ achievements to prove how great they are, spending money they don’t have, shaming and blaming you, substance abuse, saying mean and cruel things to you or about you, using manipulative tactics to try to stay in control of you, or any other unhealthy choices they make that are negatively impacting your relationship. You have a right to be concerned.
