Or, maybe you have a friend you spend a lot of time with and you give her details about hard situations you are walking through. But, over and over, she slips and shares those details you didn’t want shared with others. The more this happens, the more unsafe you start to feel. Even when you address the problem, it still happens. So, if you don’t want details shared, you’ll have to reduce the access you give to the more private aspects of your life.