what God would do. I stopped intervening. I stopped trying to suggest the next thing I hoped would help. I stopped making suggestions to God. And I stopped feeling helpless. I allowed natural consequences to happen. I thought it would be the most terrifying year of my life. But I came to realize, it was actually less terrifying to remove my hands from the situation, accept reality, and let God do what only He can do. The greatest source of my suffering was my refusal to accept what I could not change.