Now, Let’s Live This . . . REMEMBER: Trauma isn’t just something that happens to you. It happens in you. When thinking through a relationship that’s shifted from difficult to destructive, we can’t just consider the facts, we must consider the impact as well. When people close to us are acting out of control, that’s when we run the greatest risk of lacking self-control. Processing a possible goodbye isn’t permission to peace out or tap out. It’s a pathway toward grieving and accepting one of the toughest realities we will ever face—an unsustainable relationship. If we want recovery and
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