Establishing a breaking point can sometimes be a boundary that helps the relationship stay healthy. It clears up the nebulous questions around what is and is not permitted between you and the other person. That clarity will make the need for a goodbye much more obvious to both parties. It is helpful to think through boundary limits and breaking points when you are in a nonemotional, nonconfrontational mental space. Remember, like we talked about before, it’s important to prepare in times of security for times of insecurity. It’s important to prepare in times of health for times of dysfunction.
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