there’s going to be a million little funerals in my life that no one else attends. And it will probably be that way in your life too. And no one is going to bring you flowers and a casserole. There are Tuesday morning funerals and Friday night funerals and 7:30 p.m. sunset-after-work funerals. There are funerals that happen when you’re brushing your teeth or pouring a cup of coffee or making that drive you could do in your sleep. It’s not complicated or long or encapsulated within a perfectly crafted speech.