They are unwilling to honor or respect any communicated boundaries. They do not take responsibility for themselves or their actions and expect you to pick up the pieces. They refuse to acknowledge how unhealed trauma from their past, possibly even their childhood, needs to be worked out so it’s not acted out. They rewrite history to prove a point that serves only them or their version of the truth. Their version of reality is not consistent with facts. Their version of the truth is what protects them, and they really can’t discern what is and is not deception.
