drawing wise boundaries is me fighting for the relationship. It’s for their good and mine! Loosening my boundaries and enabling them to hurt the relationship and harm me isn’t helping them. I am not honoring Jesus when I give permission for the other person to act in ways that Jesus never would. Yes, Jesus laid down His life for sinners. But it wasn’t so they could keep sinning. It was for a holy purpose leading to wholeness, healing, and salvation of their souls.