And the worst part of it all is that you feel guilty for wanting to make changes. Actually, you feel awful. And it’s not just because of what they’ve said to you. All the most hurtful statements are what you say to yourself because you’re a woman who wants desperately to do the right thing. And you know the right things are informed by biblical truth. So, you have a sense that it’s just not right to make changes in a relationship if those changes are going to cause the other person any kind of hardship at all. It’s easier to manage the hurt inflicted on us rather than the hurt we could
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