So, you have a sense that it’s just not right to make changes in a relationship if those changes are going to cause the other person any kind of hardship at all. It’s easier to manage the hurt inflicted on us rather than the hurt we could potentially cause someone else if we set a boundary. So, you keep trying. You keep carrying weight you aren’t designed to carry. You keep paying the consequences of someone else’s choices. You keep saying yes. You keep giving in, just praying you don’t give out. Maybe one more time of extra grace from you. Maybe one more time rescuing them. Maybe one more
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