It’s so hard to recognize what is when you’ve been persistently trying to get someone to step into what could be. You can see it so clearly. It’s 7:30 EST to you. But it’s still just 4:30 PST to them. And unless you can alter the universe and wrangle the sun, you just aren’t going to be able to get your vision and their vision to align. And chances are it will make you cry. Not because they are missing the sunset, but because you’re both going to miss out on what could have been. It will all seem so senseless.