stay in the same kind of relationship with you. This isn’t an accusation against you. I’m just accepting the reality that this issue is affecting me mentally and physically, and it’s time to acknowledge that and make some necessary changes. I’m committed to caring well for myself. Therefore, I have decided to stop asking you to change and instead create some distance between us so that simmering resentments don’t overtake our relationship. This isn’t easy but it is necessary. If you would like to continue working on our relationship, I am willing to do that as long our interactions are only in
...more