Approach → Hyper-focused on the other person while constantly negotiating with and trying to motivate (sometimes manipulating) them to do what I feel is right and get from them what I feel I must have. Outcome → A frustrating cycle of me trying to manage the unmanageable dysfunctions until I’m completely burned out, unhealthy, and bitter. Relationships are no longer a source of satisfaction and fulfillment but instead a constant drain on my always-frazzled emotions.
