I know what it feels like to be paralyzed by another person’s choices that break your heart over and over and not know what to do about it. I know the frustration of saying something has to change but feeling stuck when the other person isn’t cooperating with those needed changes. So while some relationships become unsustainable to the point that it’s necessary to move beyond a good boundary to a goodbye, you don’t have to become someone you were never meant to be. When we’re hurt, good boundaries and goodbyes help us to not get stuck in a perpetual state of living hurt.
