Not to mention, if you are a total baby panda at internet communities asking, like, how do I get hormones, internet trans women are very nice: they will tell you. But when you ask a more complicated question, like say, how do you resolve a genderqueer identity with a female identity when it seems like acknowledging the restraints of female identity and then bursting them doesn’t make you no longer female, just empowered, and therefore is genderqueer a privileged identity that’s mostly available to female-assigned people with punk rock haircuts, in college, everybody gets all butt-hurt and you
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This might be the only appearance of explicitly non-binary identity in the book? (Though I think this passage points more to Maria's limitations than the book's.)
