life is not a sequence of straight facts but a string of experiences. when things happen to us- it’s hard to make a clean decision because too many factors come into play. the people who came and brought either love or hate, the lessons they taught you from the outside looking in it’s easy for others to give advice based on facts, but they aren’t playing with the whole deck of cards. they don’t have the experiences that go with it so, when someone tells you “oh, I would never… I would definitely do this instead!” it’s all useless because they weren’t there and you can’t navigate a situation
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