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“Dating these days is all about playing it cool. You’re needy if you want physical affection, and some subs already have difficulty expressing their desire for something. Thinking a hug or some cuddles is a burden on their partner makes it so that they don’t ask for it when they need it. A pet doesn’t have to ask; they’ll just crawl into your lap and demand what they want.”
“While some parts of BDSM are more accepted by the mainstream, there’s a lot that isn’t. And for many reasons, it’s more acceptable to be dominant than to be submissive, but only if you’re a man. For a submissive woman, it’s turning your back on centuries of the fight for women’s rights for the desire to be subjugated by a man. And if you’re a dominant woman, you’re just angry and taking it out on men. “For a man to be submissive, it’s seen as emasculating. A lot of people think a man’s worth is directly tied to his control and confidence. To be willing to give that up is… incomprehensible.
