“Being a pet can also be a way for subs to demand physical attention,” Kane said, resuming our explanation. “Dating these days is all about playing it cool. You’re needy if you want physical affection, and some subs already have difficulty expressing their desire for something. Thinking a hug or some cuddles is a burden on their partner makes it so that they don’t ask for it when they need it. A pet doesn’t have to ask; they’ll just crawl into your lap and demand what they want.”

