Countering Lana’s replies might fill a book of its own. There would be a chapter on how misogyny and love can be intertwined. Another on why a woman embracing her body isn’t an invitation for a man to touch it. How a woman might have a rape fantasy and simultaneously fear being violated. Who gets to use the word “pussy” and how. Suffice it to say, there was an unbridgeable gap in our conversation.

