“For me, it’s always when I’m in a place without them,” she said. “If I notice that they’re gone, or I miss what they’d add to something. That’s usually when I realize I’m in trouble. Even if I see someone at a party who I think is cute, and they leave before I get a chance to know them, I’m like, ‘Damn.’ Basically, I have to lose you to realize I want you around.”