Instead of only asking why our friends don’t try more, we also must evaluate whether we make them feel safe to. Here is a list of ways to show affection to a friend: Tell them how much they mean to you. When they reach out, tell them how happy you are to hear from them. Be excited at their good news. Compliment them. Praise their hard work. Greet them warmly. Let them know when they share something that’s meaningful to you. Tell them when you think of them in passing.
