Thriving means you don’t invite destructive people into your life because they give you the opportunity to earn love. It means people who love you freely are no longer suspicious and those who withhold are no longer motivating. It means you are generous because you love someone and want to show it, not because someone doesn’t love you and you want to change that. When someone withholds love, you thrive when you walk away instead of working harder. Because it’s not your fault they don’t love you and it doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you.