They are going to do what they would want someone to do for them, and it’s going to be entirely different than what you need. And I say, give up trying to make the two fit. Not that I’m some expert. I just noticed that when Steven died there was a large difference between what I wanted from people and what they wanted to give me. I think people are so terrified of being in our position that they lose all ability to even speak to us. I say let it go.”
