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I was surprised, actually, to see that this was where Shiba came from, to see, for instance, the retinue of servants at her disposal. It’s not that our household in Karachi wasn’t also run using the labor of servants, but in Shiba’s home, it was like … I don’t know … a whole protocol thing.
what do you MEAN??? No guys MY servants are the good kind! This is bad and, trust me, entirely different!!!!
“One must always consider legacy,”
I imagine, though, that it sounds like peak ignorance and privilege to be feasting poolside while children begged for money on the street just below, but sometimes it felt like this very thing—the chaos and noise, the poverty so close to our faces—that made our retreat into luxury all the more alluring. The rooftop was a haven from the blaring horns and the dying poor just steps away.
“The truth is,” he continued, “very few people can see beyond their prescribed little boxes of good and bad, wrong and right. To digest an idea yourself—an idea that hasn’t been predigested—very few can do that. Maybe that’s the reason you like to translate. You can transmit ideas, but you’re too scared to come up with your own. Ultimately, you’re afraid of your own insides. That’s why the concept disgusts you so much.”
“But that’s what I’m trying to explain to you. It’s not inherently disgusting. Our bones and muscles, they carry unimaginable wisdom, immense capability. It’s for that very reason that these practices have been demonized, made to seem primitive, barbaric. But there is nothing inherently revolting about flesh and blood,” Shiba said.
While I was away, Naima and Azeem had set a date. The wedding was in six months, and she’d sent me the invite that morning.
I don’t like how you don’t tell me certain things until later
It reminds me of the first season of Too Hot To Handle where they fully eliminated someone and for whatever reason decided to edit the episodes in such a way that it wasn't mentioned until well after the fact
I thought of Azeem and felt a stirring of resentment toward Naima. I felt like she’d never admit, even to herself, just how much her own choice of partner had to do with the comfort of heteronormative conventionality, of, basically, tick-boxing. And yet here she was advising me to take risks?
At the same time, David’s passing incited sympathy in me. David, with his shaved head and thick biceps, who held himself, always, very upright. David, who put tahini on everything and always skipped dessert, who roamed around Delhi wearing Fabindia kurtis and had named his son Ravi. David, who, like the rest of the foursome, spent a whole lot of time contemplating legacy.
No way you’re actually trying to convince me to care about this man. Not now, this close to the end, when he did literally nothing. I could barely even remember who he was and now you're telling me to care about his death?

