This approach has been empowering because it helps provide a level of control in moments when I have otherwise felt powerless. That inner confidence may not seem like much from the outside, but it has helped preserve my own humanity in the face of dehumanization. It has also been liberating because it is a reminder that the hate directed toward me is fueled by people’s fear and ignorance. I can help resolve some of their inner confusion, but, ultimately, carrying their anger is neither my burden nor my responsibility.
