Remember my joke, that bit I do about never being able to trust light-skinned girls due to various betrayals from childhood, and how you were the exception to that rule? Well, now I’m not so sure. Could you be on the run from your own Blackness? I wonder, too, about the work you’ve been doing. Altruism doesn’t square with your personality. It’s as if you’re atoning for your own selfishness, a reaction formation.