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Breaking up is hard. Breaking up with the love of your life is harder. Being open enough to fall in love after heartbreak is the hardest. And Kendra Davis didn’t see any of it coming.
“If I had a little more time, I could show you. The future I’m building is for us.”
“But what about now? We can’t make it to the future if we’re not working out now.”
“I’m tired of not living in ...
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Nothing changes if nothing changes,
I knew he loved me but in some of the lonelier moments, I questioned if he was still in love with me.
But meaning well and actually putting the meaning into action were two different things.
I needed to end things because I needed the time and attention that he wasn’t giving me.
Knowing that the love of my life loved me but couldn’t love me properly was a painful situation and I didn’t know how I was going to recover.
your hair doesn’t define your beauty.
“Because when a beautiful woman asks you a question, you answer it.”
“There is a fine line between the courage alcohol can give you and the crash and burn alcohol can give you.
we need to rehydrate and replenish.”
you can’t stress over things you
can’t control,”
“Here’s to living in the moment and taking life as it comes,”
Didn’t I want that happily ever after?
There was something about seeing two people declare their love for one another that did something to me. I was a mixture of emotions ranging from happiness (for my friend) and sadness (for my own love life).
Kendra: The best parts of me? Kofi: Your passion, your intelligence, your strength, your energy, your heart, your beauty…
“Because where I’m at in my life is different. What I’m able to give you in a relationship is different. We were always a good fit, but I couldn’t be who you needed me to be until I became who I needed me to be.”
“You said you couldn’t be who I needed you to be until you became who you needed to be for yourself.”
“Every version of me will always want every version of you.”
the number one killer of reality TV couples is real life.
It is a self-love story. It’s a story about knowing yourself well enough to ask for what it is you want and need in a relationship. It’s also a story about recognizing when someone is incapable of meeting your needs and walking away. But the most important lesson I hope readers take away is how necessary it is to find yourself, love yourself, and be your best self.

