“Like, what if a little kid tells a yo’ mama joke and then the other little kid is like, in a little-kid voice, I don’t believe in the nuclear family, so this joke has no effect on me.” Jane joined in: “Or the little kid is like, But I have two moms, so which one are you talking about?” “Or the little kid is like, Because of the toxic dynamics in my family, I’m actually parenting them, so is it really me that you’re insulting?”