This Is Not a Book About Benedict Cumberbatch: The Joy of Loving Something--Anything--Like Your Life Depends On It

by Tabitha Carvan

“The greatest hazard of all, losing one’s self, can occur very quietly in the world, as if it were nothing at all.

“Cathexis,” according to Freud: the concentration of mental or emotional energy on a particular person, idea, or object, to a possibly unhealthy degree.

wasn’t hot enough to be a fangirl, not man enough to be legit.