Steel yourself, because here’s the result, an inventory of how women are supposed to be: nice in relationships, thin, modest, domestic, caring for children, invested in romantic relationships, sexually faithful, and invested in our appearance. Awesome list. Love it. I think “thin” is my favorite, because it doesn’t pretend to be anything else. Just: thin! Another highlight is how many of these feminine attributes aren’t even about women but about other people and how women make them feel.