Keeping the main thing the main thing is impossible if you’re not capable of saying no or pushing back when others put too much on your plate. You can’t keep your head about you in stressful situations if you have no idea who you are or what you stand for. You can’t be a strong parent if you’re a mess or if you’re still letting your parents walk all over you. How will you get anything done if the temptations of social media rule your life? How can you get back up after a failure if you are overly concerned with what other people think of you?