The gap between rich and poor is so small for both men and women that there aren’t very many influential or powerful people, either. So women don’t choose a man for his wealth or rank in society. In fact, they hate arrogant men, or men who think too much about getting ahead and making money. What they really want is a kind man who likes children, and when they get hold of him, they try to get pregnant as soon as possible. What scared me most was getting a woman pregnant and not being able to go home to Greenland.