But we humans are metaphysical animals. We dwell in the past as well as the present. ‘You should be ashamed’, ‘We are very proud of you’, ‘What you did was brave’, ‘You must say sorry’. Specialised descriptions – ‘humiliating’, ‘courageous’, ‘disrespectful’ – orientate us towards the world and to each other. We make promises and imagine our futures. It is part of our nature to question. By asking ‘Why?’ the child begins to draw connections – to trace the larger patterns that transcend the region of space and time in which he is situated; to relate cause and effect, purpose and goal. He can
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