If a man shows any resistance to traditional notions of masculinity, especially in his intimate relationships with women, it’s used as proof that he isn’t actually attracted to them. It can be used as evidence that he is somehow a fraud. “Everything is gay; if you dance you’re gay; if you sit a certain way you too are gay; if you pronounce your words correctly, congrats, gay,” Diosan Borrego said. “Especially Latinos.”
