Not My First Rodeo: Lessons from the Heartland
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I am the first woman to serve as governor of South Dakota. While this is deeply significant to me, I do not believe there are “women’s issues” any more than there are “men’s issues.” There are only issues that affect us all as Americans.
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There is, however, a woman’s perspective on every single issue. That perspective is essential when we as a country make decisions about our freedom, defense, prosperity, health, and the well-being and happiness of our kids.
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I would not follow the glittery distractions of whatever was popular or convenient at any given moment.
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Their obvious imperfections gave them humility.
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Where is your humility? Why have you attached yourself to a man who shows not an ounce of humanity and truly believes he is perfect? And letting him dictate everything?
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prevents people from solving their own problems, creates new problems, and pretty much leaves everybody
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But sometimes you do need help solving your problems?
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I decided I never wanted to be that person who made others feel bad after interacting with me. I didn’t want to be negative, condemning, or speak poorly of others, or make them feel worse because of something I said.
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Yet I was also learning just how much the government—especially the federal government—interferes with every aspect of life as a business owner.
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Ooooooohere we go!
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switched to the Democrat Party to serve; of course, I never did, and to
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Now, I would never be a Democrat, but
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Even back then, any attempt at bipartisanship was seen as a weakness to partisans and the party faithful.
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Arewe pro bipartisanship ornot?
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daughter Deb had been the first woman Speaker of our state’s House of Representatives.
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I thought we dxnt care about this
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drove my pickup
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COUNTRY
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doctor
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Who is the doc???
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Dr. Steve Stout
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Ah there it is
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Larry is a cowboy
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local Chinese restaurant
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If she disgraces wonderful hkuse #2 i quit
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but these men would become my best friends during my years in the state legislature
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I wonder if she has female friends
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Larry, the rough and ready rancher, wanted a butterscotch malt, just the sweetest, most froufrou thing on the menu. We’ve
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Okay but is it really?
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Jeremiah Murphy senior was a wonderful human being.
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Foreshadow?
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I’m sure I could have handled the situation better, and perhaps I did things that were offensive to Tom that I am not remembering. But sometimes relationships just end. And that will always grieve me. These situations make me more aware of how important communication and forgiveness are. I miss Tom’s friendship, but I also believe that sometimes relationships change and that’s okay too.
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Justin was the funny, smart, and outgoing type of personality that people are drawn to. He was a talker, and people loved to hear him talk. There
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With Republicans in the majority, Speaker Boehner was eager to have the House of Representatives function as it should, holding hearings and scheduling votes—a lot of votes—on a regular basis. For
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As it should be??
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She keeps pointing out the first women to do xyz but also doesn’t think it’s a thing? Is she only asking the women silly questions and not the political questions will those be saved for the men
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“Do you think I can wear cowboy boots out here?” I asked. “I don’t see anyone wearing cowboy boots.” “Yes, you can,” that staffer answered. “You’re different.”
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Vomit
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SO common for midterm elections. It’s not really special. Until 2022 elections when republicans couldn’t gain more seats
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Are there people reading who don’t t know this? Yes actually I’m sure some of the people going balls in on trump/noem don’t know basic government facts
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I need to research but I’m pretty sure she was against a grocery tax break?
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Further, having thousands of farmers in each state—instead of just a handful—ensures more competition and lower prices for Americans. Small farmers are just as valuable as large farmers, and they deserve a level playing field. Farm programs allow them an equal chance to compete.
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Okay this I agree with
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I’m curious where this money comes from is it federally funded by a grant donated by academic or tax funded
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Research this
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Waters of the United States, or the “WOTUS” regulation.
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Research this too
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Is it targeting farmers or massive companies?
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Okay. I like this. But on the same hand where is this money coming from? Because it’s not coming from your personal account Research a bit
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enemy: the
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I don’t fully get why the EPA is not in line with this? Also an entire chapter on the black hills and not one mention of NA
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no one is above the people.
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There have been legions of books written on the differences between the sexes. There is no end to the amount of debate and analysis one can give to the topic. Here is my simplified summary: men tend to be blessed with this wonderful confidence that allows them to look at every challenge as one more thing to take on and accomplish, while women spend more time in self-reflection and analysis, which leaves them more hesitant to jump into new situations with both feet. This isn’t always true, and I’m sure you are already thinking of examples to prove me wrong. But I believe the discussion has ...more
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This just feels so opposite of how she’s talked about women’s issues?
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Okay maybe she does have women friends
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Saudi Arabia. For all its history, geopolitical significance, and vistas of endless desert, my enduring memory of the place is that I was not allowed to use public restrooms because I was a woman.
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really believe it’s the result of the way we have spoken to one another for a decade or more. Many—especially in the media—claim it all changed with Donald Trump. I don’t believe that. And I don’t think any honest observer can hold that conclusion. If anything, Trump was more of a product than a cause.
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Agree to an extent. He was a product of the environment it then he took it and RAN and made it so much worse
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Hillary Clinton had proved time and time again that she did not care about the rural way of life. She did not care to protect middle-class
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Look into
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Everybody could breathe again knowing that South Dakotans were not going to be left in the dust. Hope for America had been restored. We all celebrated. Honestly, it was hard not to.
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Uuggghhhh
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Democrats had a strong candidate in Billie Sutton—a seasoned member of the state senate and a former professional bronc rider. (A less advertised fact about him is he was also a firm Bernie Sanders supporter.)
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I arrived at dusk in Wounded Knee, the community defined by the horrible massacre of nearly three hundred Lakota people by soldiers of the United States Army on December 29, 1890. It
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was the year I spent as South Dakota Snow Queen. I
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Because what’s the point of encouraging our girls to put themselves out there if society simply won’t allow them to be successful?
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But thats not it also in this sentence you are also advocating for trans students to have no success?
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I’ve learned people treat you differently as a woman in politics. Is it fair? Absolutely not. But I’ve learned you can either burn energy being
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Mount Rushmore is a shrine to America’s great outdoors. Like all our national parks,
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But you just admitted how bad it was to NA
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It is an imperfect history. We should have the humility to grapple with our common past
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But like thiz is exactlu what you dont want wkth your outlawing "devisive issjes"
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teachable people
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