At first, I convinced myself that I actually wasn’t gay and just had completed the prerequisite experimenting that women were supposed to do in college. But then I thought a lot about Shane from The L Word and changed my mind. If I wanted to have sex with Shane, I probably wasn’t straight. And then I contemplated being a lesbian for a while, but I Love You, Man popped up on Netflix and I thought a lot about Paul Rudd too, so I decided that wasn’t right. After consulting a Healthline article, I decided that queer felt okay. And bisexual was okay too.
