But I’m grateful for that, at least when I have the wherewithal to be, Romi said. I mean, who wants to just slot into the role they’ve been told to slot into, make no fuss, roll along with it, just marry some guy and fuck him like you were brought up to? Romi! I don’t think I’ve ever heard you be so vulgar. Is it vulgar? she said. I mean, weren’t we brought up to fuck men, even if no one wanted to admit that was what was happening?
